Many countries are eliminating lead from products, and you should learn to use new electronics solders without lead. It melts at higher temperatures, does not wet as well as lead solders, and the flux stinks when melted. It is a good idea. Children should be allowed to grow up without lead in their bodies.
Metallic lead in working electronics equipment does not get into anybody, leave alone children, unless they're in the habit of self-flagellating themselves with their TVs and PCs.
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Lead-free solders are *not* a good idea, and they're being promoted by countries (mainly China) which are the largest suppliers of the Pb-free substitutes, as well as companies which would like to keep selling replacement equipment when the original fails. It's very difficult or impossible to do component-level replacement on most high-temperature Pb-free soldered boards. You will have to junk it and buy a new board, say a motherboard, even if just one capacitor has failed. There's a huge incentive for companies, especially in low-cost manufacturing bastions like China, to make Pb-free boards with poor-quality components like capacitors that fail quickly (preferably just after the warranty period has expired), because the boards cannot be repaired economically and will have to be replaced.
End result: the volume of e-waste will grow exponentially in the next few years as Pb-free solders proliferate, and none of that stuff can be repaired or recycled easily. The impact on the environment is not lead alone (which is easily recycled, BTW - almost all of the lead used in electronics goes into lead-acid batteries and CRTs, and about 99% of the battery lead is recycled). Most of the impact comes from plastic casings, ABS, PVC, epoxy encapsulation, chassis mouldings, etc., and none of that can be recycled easily. Lead in solder accounts for a very small part of the total lead in e-waste, and it is easy to recycle lead.
The best way to ensure that e-waste is minimized is to build high-quality electronics equipment that lasts (almost) forever, and will not be discarded for decades. However, that's not the option that equipment suppliers prefer - take a look at PCs that fail due to bad SMPSes, usually about a year after purchase, taking the hard drive, mobo, memory and processor with it. Pb-free will make it impossible to repair/recycle any of that stuff, it will have to be junked.
Remember, stuff will be recycled only if it's worth recycling - i.e. the value of the repaired product will have to be comparable to its new replacement. That simple incentive breaks down for Pb-free equipment.
BTW, I forgot to mention that all the Pb-free electronics with tin in them are also susceptible to forming tin-whiskers, especially in low-power equipment exposed to humidity (most modern consumer electronics stuff), so they're likely to fail quicker.
About the only thing that is comparable in durability/performance to Sn/Pb solder is Indium-based solder - and China is the largest supplier of Indium as well, which is about 10 times rarer than Silver in the earth's crust. This will probably end up being used in high-end audio in the future, with audiophools touting its miraculous transparency, soundstage, imaging, etc.
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