Because you're conflating the original event with a facsimile (recording).How is having the violin in my room a fantasy?!?!?!?
Other way 'round: you're OK with the room adding frequency response distortions that were never in the recording. I'm arguing that those distortions should be removed in order to hear less of the room and more of the source material.You seem to be okay with a tone altered version of the violin becasue you've bought into the lie that the room damages the sound of the instruments.
BTW, it's not a "lie" that rooms damage sound, it's a fact. Which is why room treatments and equalization is used: to undo the very damage you believe doesn't exist.