I think you are approaching this the right way.
Dynaudios are good, but they are expensive to buy and even more expensive to be made to sing.
I always loved the Dynaudio sound but couldnt afford them originally. Ended up buying Monitor Audio RS6. Those were nice speakers, easy to drive. Loved them with my Cayin tube amp. Also doubled up as my AV fronts and the Rotel 1075 5 channel power amp could handle them easy.
Was happy with that setup for a few years..until i took my friend speaker hunting. Took him to the Dynaudio showroom among others. He just fell for Dynaudio sound. Bought Focus 220MKII with a Plinius 9200. Combination sounded amazing. Udit Narayan's voice soared and Sultan of swings just came alive. The bass was taut, soundstage was big, vocals had an air which made them soar. After a few days I too couldn't resist and bought a pair for myself.
After getting the speakers home I realized that I dont really have an amp to drive them. Rotel made them sound small..constricted the soundstage and sounded lifeless. In a way the 12W Cayin tube amp was better. When tubes distort they still sound pleasant. So the combination could still work with vocals. Only good thing was that even poor recordings sounded decent with that combo.
After sometime I ended up getting a used Audiolab 8000P. It had more muscle and did much better with faster paced music. Speakers sounded more lively..but still something was missing.
So finally ended up getting a proper poweramp...the Densen DM30. Its a dual mono amp with huge current reserves. 100W at 8 Ohm and doubles to 200W at 4 Ohm. Now the speakers really sings...
Densen sound is quite different from Plinius (all comparisons on same Dynaudio). Plinius excells in slower paced music, giving it a tube like warmth. Densen is more rhytmic and has excellent timing. Excels in rock or electronic music. So an unplugged performance will sound better on Plinius but a live one on Densen.
Both provide an amazing soundstage and separation (my Lavry DAC also helps there).
Just listening to Delhi 6 music..this number called Noor by Amitabh. His voice has such amazing bass and it just sounds so larger than life. If I sit on my listening couch and close my eyes, its like Amitabh is somewhere on the roof and speaking down like God
Thats the thing about enjoying music..and my Dynaudios give me that.