Some small thoughts from a little experience...
When we talk of soundstage, let us be a little more explicit here. In many systems I have heard, the soundstage can be better described as a 'cinemascope' equivalent, with signficant depth at the centre but almost flat at the ends. The finest sound reproduction systems give it almost a 3-D effect, the most noticeable being the depth at the ends and corners of the room. Of course, it has to match with reality too, as I have heard piano keys sounding as if the performer had 6ft long hands. A classic test case is the Chesky demonstration disc (Volume 1) in which there is a recording inside a huge cathderal with the mic suspended in mid-air from a huge ceiling. I often consider this as a real test in evaluating the soundstage, how wide and deep and tall, how believable it is. Then there is Burmester test CD with a Chinese percussion drum performance in the last track and if your system reproduces some of the drums sounds as if coming from more than 10ft away from the corners of your room, don't spend any more money to improve your system. Another very useful CD is Naim's True Stereo in which they have given sketches of the positioning of instruments and singer for each track (available in Naim website) in 2 dimensions.
There is no doubt that speaker positioning is very critical and unless the speakers are pushed as much away from the walls as possible, in other words tuned for mid-range and not for bass as many people do, getting a decent soundstage is tough. Of course, the source and amplifiers also matter, especially the preamp; the better it is, the more believable the soundstage.
In some instances, I have noticed the soundstage shrinking in steep crossover speakers due to phase effects. In electronics, the global feedback does affect and the less feedback your amp uses, the better.
Other things like cables, stands, footers, all those tweeks etc have more effect on the focus and accuracy rather than the soundstage.
Thanks for the patient reading.
cheers.
murali